The parents come alone in certain activities, as the Day of the Parents. It is absent also in house, does not become involved in the day the day of the studies, does not make collections on what the son is seeing in the school. He seems that the man today does not find its space in the family. What he would be moving away the father from the children? Schrammel? The children are in house, alone, using technologies that the father does not dominate. This mainly creates a removal in relation to the man, the woman is acolhedora.

Children with a involved father present better resulted? Schrammel? The more the father participates, better the routine in the school. Many times, when she arrives in 5 or in 7 series and the father is absent, the mother loses the domain, and occurs problems of disciplines and income. Some stories had been made by the pupils of the School Cheap Magalhes km 95 North in Medicilndia in Par. ‘ ‘ Our parents hardly go to the meetings in the school, when they appear sporadical is for serious causes, as, for example: fight with colleagues and disobedience with professores’ ‘ (pupils of 7 and 8 series). Other pupils of the same school affirm that its parents say not to have time and have something more important to make. They also affirm that the mother looks more on the pertaining to school income, when the father nor looks for to know you are welcome, (pupils of 5 and 6 series).

FINAL CONSIDERAES the problem presented on ‘ ‘ absence of the parents in escola’ ‘ it will bring inquiries and reflections so that the school comes to make an analysis and to develop action that makes possible the situation. That the reader of this article it can suggest, to contribute and to take for the society the contained information. Any problem whichever, is necessary to search, to analyze to reflect stops later acting; this is mission of all, since we are participant of the society. For a good research, it is not enough to read or to observe, is necessary, that is, not to participate of the process in lcus, to make field research, to investigate, if necessary to question, to act, to reflect.