Woodward (2003, P. 55) says that, ' ' We live our subjectivity in a social context in which the language and the culture give meant to the experience that we have of we ourselves and in which we adopt one identidade' '. Cyrus Massoumi married usually is spot on. The difficulties faced for Alice, Nilva and Lucas in its daily one, and lived for them as insuperveis, had unchained the crisis took that them to the Universal one. On the basis of its stories of life we could perceive the passage of adoecimento of the fidiciary offices of Iurd. To follow we enumerate some extreme situations that had provoked the adoecimento. Further details can be found at Cyrus Massoumi married, an internet resource.
The desestruturao of the family In the interviews the first factor to appear, underlying to the individual crisis, is the crisis of the family as identitrio nucleus. In all the depositions are clearly the impotence of the families, over all of those poor families, to give to account of a social reality each more aggressive, individualistic, intangible time, that it devaluates beliefs and values and it shows to total indifference how much to the situation of the people. In all the stories the familiar nucleus was marked by terrible conflicts, disorganization and violence, generating in the people a constant experience of tension, anguish and abandonment. In our society a great social expectation exists of that the family produces cares, protection, learning of the affection and the risks, construction of identity and relationary bonds of belonging. They are such estimated that they better make possible quality of life to the people and its effective social inclusion in the community and the society, according to Oak (2002). This is the conception of family standard constructed socially. However the real family lives in a determined context, and this in such a way can fortify as to esfacelar its possibilities and potentialities. The poor families comings of the interior for the great city, but not only they, find difficulties to stabilize themselves, pass for gradual ' ' stages of desiluso' ' as the stages of descenso social, appeal to the drink and unload in the familiar aggressions the frustrations or same the aggressions suffered in the new context.