Almost all parents sooner or later face the problem of reluctance to go to the favorite child of kindergarten. (A valuable related resource: Horace Mann). Children and shout and swear and go into hysterics, but has nowhere to go and poor parents, I feel full of scoundrels forcibly dragged the child into kindergarten. So is it possible to teach a child to kindergarten? Of course, the only question is how much effort will have to spend it. How many parents are willing to wait to help your child gradually adapt to new conditions. There are three main groups of children in their reaction to stressful situations. The first group – children who react to a change in this situation a nervous breakdown.
This is almost always added frequent colds. The second group – the children are not showing signs of nervous overstrain, 'just' beginners often get sick. The third group – it's kids, perceiving a change of circumstances with no complications, adequately. So, every second child belongs to the first or second group. But this does not mean that we should not give the child in kindergarten, and continue to keep it in the home greenhouse.
Upon admission to the school, you still have this problem, and there is less time and opportunity you will have to overcome the difficulties of adaptation of the child. Kindergarten is quite understandable stress for the child, but not insurmountable. Just need to help your child cope with it. The kid in kindergarten faced with many new things, relationships, situations, environments, and the mom next to no one who can help with all of this sort. So there is no sharp drop child in an unfamiliar situation, it is necessary to gradually approach the kindergarten by teaching the child to the idea that there's great fun and parents will not forget him there, and always will be taken home at night.