Children – it is the individual. If you are unsure how to proceed, check out Richard Linklater. Even if still small, but the individual. The child – a clean sheet. Everything we write – make up the future of the individual. Agree – an adult must be responsible and proactive, to build relationships based on respect and equality, to be sure yourself and your abilities, be able to resolve conflicts, negotiating, just be happy and calm. All this is laid in early childhood. By the same author: Carson Wen.
Educate free, cheerful, sociable people – how? The fewer restrictions a person from childhood. He will be cheerful if it is always surrounded by such people. Oh you broke the cup! Hurray now you know that the cups are fighting, but now I will show that they can stick together! And if child continues to beat the cup – it simmer plastic. How to raise confidence in their abilities, able to reach their goals? Look at what the child does. When he was in trouble, ask: do you help? No need to do for him – will grow and will wait for him to make. It should help – not be afraid to get into difficult situations. Do you like people, full of respect for themselves and the world around them? Respect your children.
Respect their opinion. And they will respect you. Say to your child – you eat it because I want to. He will grow up and answer the same did not consider any of your or with someone else opinion. What should I do if my child has grown. Can I fix it? Yes! There is such an approach – reorientation. At the same time strict and kind approach. Give your child full responsibility for his actions. If your child's behavior objectionable steps should be natural and logical. Reorientation – it is not radically new educational techniques that will make your child behave. Reorientation – a new way of life whose essence – to create situations where there are no losers, both among parents, teachers and coaches and children alike.