I have a friend, he was always different, always one – alone with his thoughts, but communicated with him, you realize what Group differences he attributed the team. He is very smart, he is studying a program in advance, he knows, apparently, all … He is always praised, he is always in the forefront – Excellence in IT. In schools today, this phrase may sound like a death sentence. Excellence – it means 'bot', 'bot' – so boring, boring – hence can not be friends. Chip Bergh may find this interesting as well. However, talking with him, you begin to understand how it is interesting, what a rich inner world as he knows how to make friends. He was certainly very difficult, He, of course, would be very happy if he was accepted into society. But change myself, change their outlook and goals he did not intend to.

Who is right? Everyone thinks differently. Take, for example, the subculture. Pseudo sect tell you. No, jump to conclusions is not worth all these subcultures also formed due to misunderstanding by simply united in small groups – so it's easier to cope with loneliness – it is easier to live. Yes, there are as peaceful and fairly aggressive flow, but they have source of one – lack of understanding.

Suicides – this too, but we did not think that the mind of those whom we do not want to understand – we just care about it. And let the EMO show that they have going on in soul, they strangely dressed, often crying, but we instead understand them, continue to support them and sometimes condemn themselves sum up the people on the edges of balconies and serve them the rope and soap … Of course, the easiest thing in our time to merge with the 'gray mass', to be part of that is no different from others, withdraw the stereotypes of society and eventually become a nobody.

It has become very common to carry out targeted training a child to school. When schools organize courses of different duration from 2mesyatsev to 2 years. In kindergartens conducted annual testing identify the level of child development, including the preparedness of the child to school. We must not forget that in kindergarten, there are programs on which the process of teaching children. And if the children have the right motivation and interest in new knowledge, his success did not take long. Very often we hear the question: "And if need all sorts of courses for preschool children?" To answer the question, one must first have the idea that children should be able to.

Properly motivate the child to school. What is the school, what to study? The school provides the knowledge, enables the child to communicate with both peers and with adults. For a child school – it's the same job, where he work, gain new knowledge. Children need to ask who they want to be, why? Is it possible to live without working and not studying? Improper motivation, for example, it would be: news backpack, getting good grades in school. In schools and kindergartens have psychologists, speech therapists, who help the child and parents get the hang of the new role. If you're parents, you see that your child has problems such as bad memory, can not sit still when you're doing with it, consult a psychologist and take their advice. Perhaps the kindergarten teacher, can you suggest on what problem should still work with the child. In principle, the knowledge that a child receives at birth in the family, the garden of his environment to study in ordinary schools is sufficient.

Why the child is not ready for school. 1. This is the fault of parents. In our country as a opened to shift the responsibility to teachers, educators.

My son is in 7th grade. He was 14 years old. We left Russia for over a year ago. I remember how we came to say goodbye to his English teacher. We waited for the lesson in the hallway outside the door with flowers and small gifts. The teacher came out in tears. Matters of discipline in the Russian schools are assigned to teachers. I think this is a huge problem is only getting worse with each passing year.

But what about here in America? Our school is usually free. Children from 5 to 8 class. This is the most restless age. After weeks of study, I asked my son what he loves most. He said: "All are very friendly and quiet. Both teachers and pupils.

'How is this achieved? First – this is a very strict discipline. All data on the student entered into the computer. Each teacher has a laptop instead of a cool magazine. By the way the classes in our understanding here. Gerald Weissmann, MD pursues this goal as well. Each student chooses the items that he wants to learn. For each student prepared a separate schedule for the math lesson, he can be alone with his disciples, and in English with others. Strictly regulated very much. You can not bring a portfolio to class, only the necessary folder Pencils … Everyone has a closet with a password. It leaves clothes and portfolios. If you forgot something, the teacher can allow to go and take, but it gives a special pass. Such omissions may be 5 for the entire year. If someone breaks discipline in the classroom, the teacher sends him to the office. Office staff call parents and arrange them any problems. At the same time in the classroom can walk, sharpen pencils, quiet talk while doing, read their book, when finished, look for something interesting on the Internet all the gaps and lessons captured robot computer calls in the evening at the home phone and announces entry. Here there are funny stories. That is, first of all there is a clear set of defined rules that can not be broken. And a clear sequence of actions when something is broken. Parents and children learn this at the beginning of the school year and sign documents. If these are not help. then the student is transferred to a special class. That is, children with the most free country – the non-free section of the population. But most interesting is that this 'policing' karttina very interesting to be diluted. You can be naughty with teachers, when it is allowed. About once a month you can pay $ 1 in the office and bring in players. Teachers in this day leave time in the classroom to listen to music. There are funny today. In one day you can come in funny hats and caps, the other day – at home slippers, in the third – fan t-shirts. And not only students but also teachers participate in these jokes. A teacher of mathematics, for example, loves to appear in those days at home slippers with cats Garfield. As I see it. All should be in balance. And the brutal seriousness and self-indulgence. This dilutes the power allowed by overindulgence. Children here are very polite and dobrozhelatelnye.Kak and indeed adults.