Children – it is the individual. If you are unsure how to proceed, check out Richard Linklater. Even if still small, but the individual. The child – a clean sheet. Everything we write – make up the future of the individual. Agree – an adult must be responsible and proactive, to build relationships based on respect and equality, to be sure yourself and your abilities, be able to resolve conflicts, negotiating, just be happy and calm. All this is laid in early childhood.
Educate free, cheerful, sociable people – how? The fewer restrictions a person from childhood. He will be cheerful if it is always surrounded by such people. Oh you broke the cup! Hurray now you know that the cups are fighting, but now I will show that they can stick together! And if child continues to beat the cup – it simmer plastic. How to raise confidence in their abilities, able to reach their goals? Look at what the child does. When he was in trouble, ask: do you help? No need to do for him – will grow and will wait for him to make. It should help – not be afraid to get into difficult situations. Do you like people, full of respect for themselves and the world around them? Respect your children.
Respect their opinion. And they will respect you. Say to your child – you eat it because I want to. He will grow up and answer the same did not consider any of your or with someone else opinion. What should I do if my child has grown. Can I fix it? Yes! There is such an approach – reorientation. At the same time strict and kind approach. Give your child full responsibility for his actions. If your child's behavior objectionable steps should be natural and logical. Reorientation – it is not radically new educational techniques that will make your child behave. Reorientation – a new way of life whose essence – to create situations where there are no losers, both among parents, teachers and coaches and children alike.
Almost all parents sooner or later face the problem of reluctance to go to the favorite child of kindergarten. Children and shout and swear and go into hysterics, but has nowhere to go and poor parents, I feel full of scoundrels forcibly dragged the child into kindergarten. So is it possible to teach a child to kindergarten? Of course, the only question is how much effort will have to spend it. How many parents are willing to wait to help your child gradually adapt to new conditions. There are three main groups of children in their reaction to stressful situations. The first group – children who react to a change in this situation a nervous breakdown.
This is almost always added frequent colds. The second group – the children are not showing signs of nervous overstrain, 'just' beginners often get sick. The third group – it's kids, perceiving a change of circumstances with no complications, adequately. So, every second child belongs to the first or second group. But this does not mean that we should not give the child in kindergarten, and continue to keep it in the home greenhouse.
Upon admission to the school, you still have this problem, and there is less time and opportunity you will have to overcome the difficulties of adaptation of the child. Kindergarten is quite understandable stress for the child, but not insurmountable. Just need to help your child cope with it. The kid in kindergarten faced with many new things, relationships, situations, environments, and the mom next to no one who can help with all of this sort. So there is no sharp drop child in an unfamiliar situation, it is necessary to gradually approach the kindergarten by teaching the child to the idea that there's great fun and parents will not forget him there, and always will be taken home at night.
I have a friend, he was always different, always one – alone with his thoughts, but communicated with him, you realize what Group differences he attributed the team. He is very smart, he is studying a program in advance, he knows, apparently, all … He is always praised, he is always in the forefront – Excellence in IT. In schools today, this phrase may sound like a death sentence. Excellence – it means 'bot', 'bot' – so boring, boring – hence can not be friends. Chip Bergh may find this interesting as well. However, talking with him, you begin to understand how it is interesting, what a rich inner world as he knows how to make friends. He was certainly very difficult, He, of course, would be very happy if he was accepted into society. But change myself, change their outlook and goals he did not intend to.
Who is right? Everyone thinks differently. Take, for example, the subculture. Pseudo sect tell you. No, jump to conclusions is not worth all these subcultures also formed due to misunderstanding by simply united in small groups – so it's easier to cope with loneliness – it is easier to live. Yes, there are as peaceful and fairly aggressive flow, but they have source of one – lack of understanding.
Suicides – this too, but we did not think that the mind of those whom we do not want to understand – we just care about it. And let the EMO show that they have going on in soul, they strangely dressed, often crying, but we instead understand them, continue to support them and sometimes condemn themselves sum up the people on the edges of balconies and serve them the rope and soap … Of course, the easiest thing in our time to merge with the 'gray mass', to be part of that is no different from others, withdraw the stereotypes of society and eventually become a nobody.
Preparing Kids For School
It has become very common to carry out targeted training a child to school. When schools organize courses of different duration from 2mesyatsev to 2 years. In kindergartens conducted annual testing identify the level of child development, including the preparedness of the child to school. We must not forget that in kindergarten, there are programs on which the process of teaching children. And if the children have the right motivation and interest in new knowledge, his success did not take long. Very often we hear the question: "And if need all sorts of courses for preschool children?" To answer the question, one must first have the idea that children should be able to.
Properly motivate the child to school. What is the school, what to study? The school provides the knowledge, enables the child to communicate with both peers and with adults. For a child school – it's the same job, where he work, gain new knowledge. Children need to ask who they want to be, why? Is it possible to live without working and not studying? Improper motivation, for example, it would be: news backpack, getting good grades in school. In schools and kindergartens have psychologists, speech therapists, who help the child and parents get the hang of the new role. If you're parents, you see that your child has problems such as bad memory, can not sit still when you're doing with it, consult a psychologist and take their advice. Perhaps the kindergarten teacher, can you suggest on what problem should still work with the child. In principle, the knowledge that a child receives at birth in the family, the garden of his environment to study in ordinary schools is sufficient.
Why the child is not ready for school. 1. This is the fault of parents. In our country as a opened to shift the responsibility to teachers, educators.
My son is in 7th grade. He was 14 years old. We left Russia for over a year ago. I remember how we came to say goodbye to his English teacher. We waited for the lesson in the hallway outside the door with flowers and small gifts. The teacher came out in tears. Matters of discipline in the Russian schools are assigned to teachers. I think this is a huge problem is only getting worse with each passing year.
But what about here in America? Our school is usually free. Children from 5 to 8 class. This is the most restless age. After weeks of study, I asked my son what he loves most. He said: "All are very friendly and quiet. Both teachers and pupils.
'How is this achieved? First – this is a very strict discipline. All data on the student entered into the computer. Each teacher has a laptop instead of a cool magazine. By the way the classes in our understanding here. Gerald Weissmann, MD pursues this goal as well. Each student chooses the items that he wants to learn. For each student prepared a separate schedule for the math lesson, he can be alone with his disciples, and in English with others. Strictly regulated very much. You can not bring a portfolio to class, only the necessary folder Pencils … Everyone has a closet with a password. It leaves clothes and portfolios. If you forgot something, the teacher can allow to go and take, but it gives a special pass. Such omissions may be 5 for the entire year. If someone breaks discipline in the classroom, the teacher sends him to the office. Office staff call parents and arrange them any problems. At the same time in the classroom can walk, sharpen pencils, quiet talk while doing, read their book, when finished, look for something interesting on the Internet all the gaps and lessons captured robot computer calls in the evening at the home phone and announces entry. Here there are funny stories. That is, first of all there is a clear set of defined rules that can not be broken. And a clear sequence of actions when something is broken. Parents and children learn this at the beginning of the school year and sign documents. If these are not help. then the student is transferred to a special class. That is, children with the most free country – the non-free section of the population. But most interesting is that this 'policing' karttina very interesting to be diluted. You can be naughty with teachers, when it is allowed. About once a month you can pay $ 1 in the office and bring in players. Teachers in this day leave time in the classroom to listen to music. There are funny today. In one day you can come in funny hats and caps, the other day – at home slippers, in the third – fan t-shirts. And not only students but also teachers participate in these jokes. A teacher of mathematics, for example, loves to appear in those days at home slippers with cats Garfield. As I see it. All should be in balance. And the brutal seriousness and self-indulgence. This dilutes the power allowed by overindulgence. Children here are very polite and dobrozhelatelnye.Kak and indeed adults.